Rapunzel, let down your hair

I have an active imagination. It’s a great thing, it really helps when you go through those long dry patches. I would much rather live in my imagination than in the real world (who the hell wouldn’t right?!), but sometimes I think I let it go too far. For instance. I, have magic hair. When …

The Problem With Having A Sweet Tooth

When I first saw him that Friday night I wanted to be the typical (awful) white girl and touch his hair. He stood out from the crowd, not my usual type, but there was an energy to him that was appealing. I was distressed, my family were in a city locked down by a terror …

The best way to do long distance

Long distance romantic relationships are a terrible idea in my opinion. This all stems from the awful final 18 months with my first serious partner. The further apart we were the clingyer he would get, the more intense he got the more independent I wanted to be and the guiltier I felt. This whilst paying …

First Impressions

First impressions are a huge deal. From the first message on whatever dating app you are currently using, to the first date. I’m not great at making a good first impression. I am too lazy/ slovenly to care that much about my makeup etc. and since I am usually coming from the office I’m in …