It’s tough to be Spontaneous in London

Many moons ago I was talking with an old friend of mine. I was in a relationship, (which goes to show how long ago it was!) and talking about my sex life (natch). My friend was surprised when I was telling him that I had to schedule sex into my life. I can remember his …

Sub par sex

“But every time you talk about him he sounds so great” Yup our dates are great fun, he’s nice, he’s solvent, we’ve some mutual interests, he’s not a dick, he’s interesting but ughgggh I hate to say this… It’s a sexual compatibility thing. It’s not that he’s bad in bed, not at all. He’s a …

The Problem With Having A Sweet Tooth

When I first saw him that Friday night I wanted to be the typical (awful) white girl and touch his hair. He stood out from the crowd, not my usual type, but there was an energy to him that was appealing. I was distressed, my family were in a city locked down by a terror …

First Impressions

First impressions are a huge deal. From the first message on whatever dating app you are currently using, to the first date. I’m not great at making a good first impression. I am too lazy/ slovenly to care that much about my makeup etc. and since I am usually coming from the office I’m in …